Kindness Is The Noblest Weapon To Conquer With

October 24th, 2010 by Shelley Brown

“Kindness is the noblest weapon to conquer with.” – An American Proverb
 
Las Vegas is the epicenter of the foreclosure hurricane and it is affecting our friends, our family, and our neighbors.  We have a reputation of being less neighborly in Las Vegas than other areas because we fence our yards with block walls. This crisis as well as the upcoming holiday season bring to mind the need to reach out and be kind to others.  A small act of kindness can change the day for someone else and uplift you mentally and spiritually.  Stop and pick up the garbage blown in someone else’s yard.  Knock on the door and let them know their sprinkler system has a leak.  Pull a weed in your neighbor’s yard as you walk by.  Pick up the newspaper  and put it by the front door. Wave when you drive by.  Roll down the car window and say “hi” as you pass them in their yard.  People matter- show a little kindness.  It costs nothing and the reward is huge.

Fanfare of our Republic

October 6th, 2010 by Christina Yeakel

I just finished watching the final matches of the most celebrated bi-annual golf event, the Ryder Cup. This event pits the best of American golfers against their counterparts in Europe. It is a strange happening in that golf is normally not looked at as a team sport. However, there are exceptions in the amateur arena with college teams competing where individuals are less important than the overall effort of the team. Whether amateur or professional most people will agree that viewing golf on television is subdued, sometimes lifeless, with an occasional burst of crowd approval over a sensational shot. But on the professional side, the Ryder Cup and the President’s Cup are unique. It is interesting to watch golf in this format. There is not a moment that is not filled with the tension of the individual match as it plays into the overall point accumulation, leading to the eventual capture of the cherished Cup. 

I found that even though I did not have the opportunity to watch all the matches in the various formats, I was not dissatisfied. What enthralled me most was what occurred after the last ball dropped on the last match. The crowd, and even more surprising the players, came alive with congratulatory praise for their team’s undertakings. In this single moment, these individuals, who throughout the year in competition have little to say to each other, became one in their joy, accomplishments and even disappointments. If I could listen to the stirring “Fanfare for the Common Man” and watch this exhilarating finale at the same time, I believe that I too would be jumping with joy and a common sense of unity and achievement.

I believe that I have learned another lesson of life. No matter how insular or reclusive we become, or how much we may believe that our individual actions have no importance, collective unity of principle and intent will overcome most obstacles. We are a Nation of individuals, but collectively, we are a country with purpose and great resolve. Join in the Fanfare of our Republic; make your vote count in November.

Ramblings on Labor Day

September 16th, 2010 by Christina Yeakel

I am writing this month’s newsletter on Labor Day.  On this day that recognizes those who “labor”, I am taking a few moments out of my busy schedule to be a little creative and focus on something reflective.

This holiday has always been the most confusing to me.  I believe it does not have the clear purpose for celebration that other major holidays have.  You may disagree, depending on your perspective.  When I was growing up, I remember that this was the holiday that I looked forward to the least.  To be honest, I did not look forward to it at all. It meant the end of summer vacation and back to school!

As a recently popular commercial on television made famous, “I digress”.  I started to support my premise that this holiday is somewhat lost.  It is intended to honor all those who labor in any walk of life; it should be a day off from laboring.

If you are a member of a labor union, this day celebrates the advent of unions and all that unions stand for and support to this day.  According to the Department of Labor Web site, it constitutes a yearly national tribute to the contributions workers have made to the strength, prosperity, and well being of our country.  The first Labor Day holiday was September 5, 1882.

If you are a business owner, you consider this day is for those that are under your employ.  You may even look at this holiday as any other day, as most small businesses, particularly those in the retail and food sector, are open today.

Too many people wish they were working today but find themselves unemployed, unable to find gainful employment in this difficult economy.  My heart goes out to them.

If you are like me in a service industry, particularly real estate, this day may be one of your busiest and you celebrate to yourself that you have many good clients that allow you to stay in business.  For that, I am thankful.

Whatever our circumstances, Labor Day is a day to picnic, BBQ that last wonderful hamburger or hotdog, share the day with family and friends, rest, relax, and celebrate all that we have on this last holiday of the waning days of summer………and, rejoice in the fact that football season kicks off next week.

The American Spirit

August 6th, 2010 by Christina Yeakel

I think I am still on high since last month’s celebration of our Country’s independence. This may seem a little juvenile to many, but since childhood I have looked forward to this day. It may be the anticipation and exhilaration of the fireworks spectacles that first caught my interest. I can remember vividly our empty lot adjacent to our house was prepared each year and used as the platform for the entire neighborhood’s 4th displays. What excitement! I was proud that our family’s celebration was the focus of our friends. In my early years I did not really understand what the excitement was all about and what really brought those families together. My attention was to the sounds and colors of that special night. It was only later that this special day took on new meaning.

This day and month of commemoration honors so much. Our freedoms that we take for granted throughout the rest of the year are remembered and placed on a pedestal. We wear these gifts of this great country like medals on the chest of the military uniform, proudly displaying to all who will listen that we are proud to be Americans. It is our time to remember, re-enforce and celebrate these freedoms and we do with gusto.

This spirit is still alive and well today; maybe a little tarnished and browned on the edges with the recurrent affronts that have become too common place. However, we still “hold these truths” and enjoy one of the greatest liberties a free nation can tolerate, our ability to decide through our vote who will lead us and be our protectors of the ideals that were founded 234 years ago. Be proud and celebrate that we have been blessed with this most important liberty; make your vote count in November.

Step Up To The Plate

July 15th, 2010 by Christina Yeakel

I confess that I did something very bold. I do not know what possessed me to dig myself out of my safe and very innocuous shell and let the cyber world know my inner feelings. Was it a moment of weakness, coupled with a smatter of poor judgment that resulted in this self-revelation, leaving me vulnerable to the world. Or was it a level of frustration that finally spilled over my inner walls of constraint, pouring out in word and thought that were not recoverable, once this barrier was purged.

I promise to tell you about my daring step if you promise not to snicker the next time you see me! It had been a “long time coming”; I did not see the early signs, they were there. Maybe if I had heeded these warnings, things would be much different today. My feelings were like a festering pot but visible only to me; until finally I could not take it anymore. I had to share these thoughts unless I was to implode internally and choke on my rising convictions. Here it is, the revelation that still astounds me today. I broke my cardinal rule of never forwarding and adding comment to an email that supported a position. Whew! Now that I have shared this with you, I feel the relief that only a disclosure of this magnitude can bring.

All levity aside, I did step out recently and share a political position via email. I felt strongly about an issue and shared these thoughts to a select group of friends and associates. It is true that I have been reluctant to state a position to anyone outside of my immediate family, but I knew that I had to go beyond the comfort of this inner circle that continues to be supportive of all I do. I believe that times have changed so much that we can no longer be complacent and condone that which we believe strongly offends the best judgment we have developed over the years. I believe that I have grown from this very minor expression, which was amplified by the support and encouragement that was received from my audience. I encourage all of you to step up to the plate and share with others those thoughts or positions that have impassioned you and need to be told.